Despite my last relapse into the stages of grief I think I am on the right track again. I will be starting a certificate program next month to be an administrative assistant and finally get out of the fast food industry. I will be done paying for that schooling in about 3 months or so then I will be saving to move to the city to go to college at Everest woo hoo. I have decided to go to school for paralegal studies. I am so excited to further my education. It is so important to me to be financially independent, I felt stuck with my husband for so long because I had no money and no family to lean on and I never want to have to rely on anyone ever again. When I did my do it myself divorce I wasn't really sure what the next step for me was. I spent so much of life supporting someone else's goals and achievements that I never really had time for my own. I was really interested in law going through my divorce and really felt like it was something I could do. We will see if I sink or swim, though I know as a hole I am already a success.